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How to Spot an ESTJ

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The Administrator (also known as The Overseer) is one of the most gregarious and charismatic personality types. ESTJ individuals are bound to make an impression on anyone they meet. But what are the telltale signs of an Administrator? How do we pick them out from a crowd?

There are some characteristics that ESTJs share with other persnality types. We can say that they are as decisive as an ENTJ and as objective as an ISTP. But what sets them apart is not so much one or two specific qualities. Rather it is the combination of traits that creates the unique amalgam of the ESTJ personality — the whole is different from the sum of its parts.

One of the easiest ways to understand what something is, is to find out what it’s not. So after an initial overview of the defining characteristics of Administrators, we will dive into the similarities and differences between the ESTJ and each of the other 15 personality types. You will probably notice that in some cases the differences are unmistakable, while in others a closer look is needed to pick up on more nuanced distinctions. In any case, we hope that by the end of this article you will have a much better understanding not only of the ESTJ profile but of the whole personality type spectrum.

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ESTJ Characteristics

Hardworking, dependable, practical. These are just some of the defining qualities of ESTJs (Extroverted, Sensing, Thinking, and Judging). Administrators have strong leadership skills and are not afraid to use them. Their pragmatic and determined nature draws them to where the action is. It comes naturally to an ESTJ to take charge of a situation and guide others in pursuit of a common goal. They rarely hesitate and seem to have inexhaustible energy.

The ESTJ personality type is also defined by a tendency to value loyalty and tradition. They are strongly connected to their family and tend to have a preference for long-term, committed relationships, whether in romance or friendship. They value rules, order, and stability and often work toward establishing them. ESTJs also tend to be protective of those close to them. You can count on an Administrator friend to stand up for you, and also for what they believe in.

There is a potential pitfall to ESTJs’ reliance on established practices when it comes to completing tasks. Especially if this orthodoxy is combined with a desire to always be right. This can make Administrators seem stubborn or rigid to others. While, as a Judger, the ESTJ’s attitude gets things done, it can also put a strain on their relationships.

What’s more, Administrators have a preference for direct and honest expression of their views, often disregarding the emotional context. This could leave others, especially more sensitive or introverted types, feeling hurt or unappreciated. However, it’s important to remember that most likely the intention of the healthy ESTJ type is not to offend, but rather to communicate clearly. They value facts over tact and simply want to add efficiency to interactions.

How do ESTJs Compare to Other Personality Types?

Before we dive into a type-by-type comparison, let’s go over what differentiates types from one another in the personality assesment framework. Each of the 16 personality types is made up of four different preferences, one from each of the following pairs:

  • Extroversion (E) vs Introversion (I)
  • Sensing (S) vs Intuition (N)
  • Thinking (T) vs Feeling (F)
  • Judging (J) vs Perceiving (P)

In addition, each personality type has four cognitive functions, ordered from dominant function (most often used) to inferior function (least often used). These describe how a personality type tends to process information and make decisions. This further contributes to the unique nature of each type, because two types may share most of their preferences, but still differ significantly in their cognitive functions. Here are the eight possible functions:

  • Extraverted Feeling (Fe)
  • Extraverted Intuition (Ne)
  • Extraverted Sensing (Se)
  • Extraverted Thinking (Te)
  • Introverted Feeling (Fi)
  • Introverted Intuition (Ni)
  • Introverted Sensing (Si)
  • Introverted Thinking (Ti)

ESTJ vs SJ Temperament Types

SJ Protector temperament types (ESTJ, ESFJ, ISTJ, and ISFJ), also called the Guardian temperament, by psychologist David Keirsey, are defined by their Sensing and Judging preferences. These four personality types are usually concrete and structured. They believe that rules are there for a reason, and value established ways. The SJ types are also hard-working; they don’t shy away from responsibility and always finish what they have started. They also rarely engage in idle speculation, but rather prefer to consider the immediate situation and spring into action.

Since ESTJs are part of this temperament group, it should come as no surprise that they have quite a few similarities to the other three types in the group. However, there are a few differences that can help us tell them apart.


One of the most prominent features of the ESFJ personality type (also known as The Caregiver) is their desire to help and care for others. Looking out for the well-being of those around them is one of their highest priorities. ESFJs are also sensitive to criticism. They tend to get hurt easily by negative feedback and seek acceptance from everyone. This can be accounted for by their dominant cognitive function — Extraverted Feeling. It leads them to make decisions based on consideration for others and their emotions rather than objective criteria. This function can also drive the ESFJ type to make hasty judgments about others, as well as communicate them without reserve.

ESTJs and ESFJs share a penchant for rules and traditions. Both types respect norms and authority. Another similarity between the two is that both are sociable and outspoken. They also tend to place a high value on commitments and have a strong sense of responsibility.

One way the two types differ is in their preferred approach to decision making. ESTJs tend to make decisions based on facts and logic, driven by their dominant function — Extroverted Thinking. ESFJs, on the other hand, count on their emotions when deciding something. Furthermore, while both types are supportive of others, they are likely to express their support in different ways. ESTJs protect and guide others in a more practical manner, driven by their sense of duty, while ESFJs tend to provide emotional support.


The ISTJ personality type (also known as The Archivist) is hard-working, practical, and reliable. They view the world objectively and can be counted on to complete what they have started. ISTJs have a strong sense of right and wrong and tend to be loyal and honest. Examiners’ primary function is Introverted Sensing. This means that ISTJ types rely on the information they get from their five senses and have a good memory of their experiences. This allows them to form logical connections between past and present, as well as shape their expectations about the future based on that.

Both ESTJs and ISTJs are dependable and driven. They can be trusted to finish what they have started and derive satisfaction from completing tasks. Both types value order and function best in environments that have clear rules and predictability. Another common characteristic between the two types is their relatively low emotional awareness. Both ESTJs and ISTJs often fail to pick up on the emotional context of a situation. They are not as much in tune with the feelings of others, or even their own, so they tend to focus on the practical side of things.

Where ESTJs and ISTJs diverge, is in their approach to social interactions. ISTJs are private and reserved, while ESTJs are outgoing and uninhibited. Administrators often seek the spotlight, while Archivists shy away from it and prefer to observe from a distance. In a workplace setting, ESTJs prefer to work with people, as well as guide them, while ISTJs enjoy solitary and independent work.


The ISFJ personality type (also known as The Defender) tends to be quiet, considerate, and dependable. They have a strong urge to help others without seeking recognition. Others usually value their warm and caring nature. Defenders also have an affinity for order and predictability — they tend to have a strict routine and derive satisfaction from completing tasks. Their primary cognitive function is Introverted Sensing. This makes them present-focused and accounts for their strong attention to detail. Their attention is drawn by concrete matters and they are unlikely to spend much time focusing on an abstract idea.

ESTJs also tend to focus on real-world matters, rather than hypotheticals. The two types share a commitment to responsibility and a lack of tolerance for incomplete tasks. Both ESTJs and ISFJs are fond of order, loyalty, and tradition.

Administrators and Defenders differ in their way of relating to others. ISFJ types are in tune with the feelings of others and consider them when communicating. ESTJs, on the other hand, focus on describing things as they see them, often neglecting how their comments make others feel. Defenders also avoid confrontation because of their sensitivity, while Administrators are not afraid to engage in conflict if it brings them closer to their objective.

ESTJs vs SP Temperament Types

SP Creator temperament types (ESTP, ESFP, ISTP, and ISFP) are defined by their Sensing and Perceiving preferences. These four personality types tend to be spontaneous and pursue exciting and stimulating activities more often than other temperaments. They enjoy exploring the world and are not too fond of planning ahead. They are often drawn to tools and equipment. Similar to ESTJs, personality types from this temperament are energetic and practical. However, SP temperament types tend to dislike routine and predictable situations — two conditions that appeal to Administrators.


The ESTP type (also known as The Daredevil) is one of the most outgoing and energetic personality types out there. They are fun-loving and spontaneous; they love immersing themselves in new experiences to the point of being drawn to risky situations. They spring into action when it is called for, and direct their attention towards the concrete and practical side of things. They are unlikely to ponder abstract concepts or focus on emotions. ESTPs’ adventure-seeking and pragmatic nature can be attributed to their dominant function — Extroverted Sensing. They process information through their senses and are energized by present experiences.

On the surface, ESTJs and ESTPs have a lot of similarities. In fact, these two types are often mistaken for one another. Both types are sociable and charismatic. Because of their shared Extroversion personality preference, they enjoy the limelight. Both types are also decisive and realistic, as they are action-oriented and focus on the facts rather than the sentiment. Both Administrators and Persuaders are thick-skinned — and are unlikely to take criticism personally.

But once you get to know each psychological type better, you’re likely to find hard-to-mistake distinctions. For one thing, ESTJs place a lot of importance on routine and structure, while ESTP types get bored easily and seek novelty. Because of this, Administrators are more comfortable in predictable situations with clear rules, while Daredevils prefer to improvise and adapt as they go.


The ESFP (also known as The Entertainer) is another personality type that is sociable and spontaneous. As an extroverted personality, the ESFP type is energized by social interactions and loves to have more than one option, rather than adhering to a strict schedule. They are usually warm and affectionate and like to engage in deep, emotional conversations that maintain an agreeable tone. With Extroverted Sensing as their dominant function, they prefer focusing on concrete matters, rather than hypotheticals. Although Entertainers are down-to-earth and practical, they usually make decisions based on their present urges, without much consideration for future consequences.

ESTJs and ESFPs are connected by their outgoing nature. Both types enjoy socializing and being the center of attention. Although both are communicative, the ESFP is often the more talkative one. Another attribute they share is their preference for real-world topics and hands-on experience instead of theoretical learning and discussions.

ESTJs and ESFPs differ in emotional expression. Unlike Administrators, Entertainers are keenly aware of the emotional context of a situation and consider other people’s feelings. ESFPs are also in tune with their own emotions and often make decisions based on them. They dislike confrontation and get offended easily. ESTJs, on the other hand, usually don’t take into account how their words and actions may make others feel, as they are result-oriented. Another difference between the two is their attitude toward schedules. ESFPs dislike routine and are often impulsive, while ESTJs like order and structure.


The ISTP personality type (also known as The Tinkerer) is individualistic and adventurous. ISTPs value their independence and love acquiring new skills. They prefer hands-on experiences and are good at working with tools and equipment. They have an analytical mind, but their curiosity is directed toward concrete, and not abstract theories. Their dominant function — Introverted Thinking — makes them prone to processing information in their heads for a long time before acting or sharing with others. They are good problem solvers and avoid emotional considerations when they make decisions.

ESTJs and ISTPs both value honesty and straightforwardness. The two types express themselves directly and don’t take feelings into account most of the time. Both are result-oriented and prefer to focus on the logical connections between things. They use their rationality when figuring out a way forward.

However, ESTJs direct their analytical powers outward, attempting to bring order and stability to the outside world, while ISTP types mostly use logic to arrange things within their mind. This is why The Administrator is fond of routine and structure, while The Tinkerer prefers to have flexibility and novel experiences. Furthermore, unlike ESTJs, ISTPs are reserved and prefer to spend time alone or with a small group of close friends. Their autonomy is important to them, so they resist being controlled in contrast to the authority-respecting ESTJ.


The ISFP personality type (also known as The Adventurer) is creative and freedom-loving. ISFPs like to engage in artistic pursuits and other crafts and trades that involve manual work and reliance on one’s senses. Their focus on real-world issues also makes them keenly aware of their surroundings. Adventurers’ dominant cognitive function is Introverted Feeling. This means that they have a rich internal world of views and feelings that guide them when they make decisions. ISFPs have a strong sense of their emotions and those of others and tend to take them into consideration. They also enjoy having flexibility and autonomy.

There is little in common between ESTJs and ISFPs besides their down-to-earth nature and their affinity for trust and loyalty. Both types prefer the concrete over the abstract and tend to take commitments seriously.

In most other respects, however, the two types diverge. For instance, ISFP types feel stressed by strict rules and regulations, while ESTJs thrive in such settings. Adventurers are also quiet and restrained — they prefer to spend time alone or with a few close friends. The gregarious Administrator is pretty much the opposite. Furthermore, ISFPs are uncomfortable with confrontations, as they are sensitive to the emotional subtext of interactions, whereas ESTJs approach conflict head-on and do not take it personally. Despite their awareness of feelings, ISFPs may not be good at expressing them, so they often seem reserved compared to the uninhibited ESTJs.

ESTJs vs NT Temperament Types

The NT Intellectual temperament types (ENTJ, ENTP, INTJ, and INTP) are defined by their Intuition and Perceiving preferences. These personality types tend to be rational, curious and driven. They value their intelligence and one of their main drives is to obtain more knowledge. Types from this temperament also like to engage in abstract thought and don’t consider emotions when making decisions. They are strong-willed and ambitious, which are two things they have in common with ESTJs. Administrators, like the NT types, rely on logic rather than feeling, but they differ in the sphere in which logic is applied. For the ESTJ’s mind focuses mostly on the concrete rather than the theoretical.


The ENTJ personality type (also known as The General) stands out with confidence, assertiveness, and leadership skills. A person with this personality type is usually analytical and hard working. They also love to engage in debate. Generals are driven to achieve success in all their endeavors and rarely rest until they do. ENTJ types’ dominant cognitive function is Extroverted Thinking, so they tend to make decisions based on objective criteria rather than emotions. They focus on the world around them and how they can improve it. Chiefs are also curious and competitive. They like to make plans for the future.

Since ESTJs and ENTJs have the same primary function, it’s no surprise that it’s fairly common for either one to get mistyped as the other. Both types are born leaders — they naturally take charge of a situation and take decisive action. They are driven to achieve their goals and don’t like to leave tasks unfinished. Administrators and Generals are both energetic and charismatic so they draw people toward them. But the two types can also be perceived by others as forceful or insensitive. Both ESTJs and ENTJs are comfortable with conflict because they pay little attention to personal feelings, and approach confrontations rationally.

There are a couple of areas in which they differ, however, which could help us tell them apart. ENTJs are future-oriented, so they like to plan, strategize, and engage in theoretical thought. ESTJs, on the other hand, are mostly focused on the present; they aim to bring order and stability to the present situation and rarely go into the abstract, but rather consider the concrete.


The ENTP (also known as The Debater) is one of the most intellectual personality types. ENTPs love applying their inventive mind to finding novel solutions to problems. Debaters’ thinking is usually abstract and theoretical, so it comes naturally to them to generate original ideas. As a Thinker, the ENTP personality type is skilled at rational thought and sometimes likes to engage in debates for the sake of it. ENTPs’ dominant function is Extroverted Intuition, which explains their keen eye for unexplored possibilities. However, they sometimes get so wrapped up in theoretical thinking and looking at the big picture, that they fail to bring attention to details or follow through on their plans.

ESTJs and ENTPs are both energized by social interactions. Both like to engage in lively conversations and apply their rational minds to discussions. The two types share a reliance on objectivity and a relative disregard for emotional matters.

One of the key distinctions between ESTJs and ENTPs is their differing focus when it comes to decision making. Debaters often ponder hypotheticals, which leads them on a path to new ideas. Administrators would rather focus on the concrete, so they tend to trust tried and tested methods. Another difference between the two is their attitude toward routine and structure. ESTJs thrive when there are clear rules and schedules, while as a Perceiver, the ENTP type feels restricted by them, as they don’t allow them to engage their creative side. ESTJs also tend to get into an argument to reach an efficient solution, while ENTPs may debate simply for the sake of the intellectual challenge.


The INTJ personality type (also known as The Mastermind) has an analytical and conceptual mind. INTJs excel at making action plans and tend to be very confident. Their expectations of themselves can border on perfectionism; achieving their goals is of the highest priority. Masterminds like to spend time alone and engage in deep thought, which often makes them seem distant and unemotional. However, they tend to be good listeners. Their dominant function is Introverted Intuition, which drives them to explore the meaning behind the facts and find hidden patterns. INTJ types also like to feel in control of the situation. Devising strategies for the future helps them achieve that.

Both ESTJs and INTJs tend to be confident and hard-working. They take their responsibilities seriously and can be counted on to honor their commitments. Both types rely on objective reasoning and can sometimes be perceived as unaffectionate or even insensitive. That’s especially true for a more unhealthy ESTJ type. In any case, Administrators and Masterminds are unlikely to take criticism personally. They also share an affinity for order and structure.

Administrators and Masterminds differ in their approach towards problem-solving. ESTJs focus on the concrete and the details, they follow established ways. INTJs, on the other hand, try to see the big picture and make connections to form an overall meaning. In terms of sociability, INTJs are a lot more private and reserved than ESTJs. When they do engage in social interactions, it is usually in small groups, for Masterminds prefer to have deep, philosophical conversations rather than focus on real-world matters, which is the preferred domain of ESTJs.


The INTP personality type (also known as The Logician) loves to engage in analytical thought. INTPs enjoy exploring theories and abstract concepts, which may lead them to scientific fields. Logicians are energized by spending time alone. They value their independence and do not like to abide by strict rules. INTPs’ dominant function is Introverted Thinking, which makes them prone to deep thought and analysis. They make sure they have completely thought things through before taking action or sharing their views with others. They are enthusiastic about their passions but are generally easygoing.

ESTJs and INTPs have little in common. But one thing that does connect them is their reliance on objectivity and aversion to emotionality. Both types tend to struggle with the expression of emotion and tend to focus on rationality. They also value loyalty and commitment.

One notable difference between the two types is their attitude toward rules and routines. ESTJs value clear norms and schedules, while the INTP type usually finds them restrictive. INTPs prefer to set their own pace and not feel controlled. They are spontaneous, flexible, and imaginative. As with other Sensing vs Intuition pairs, one way to tell them apart is to observe their ways of engaging with the world. ESTJs are likely to focus on the concrete and practical side of things, while INTPs prefer to ponder theoretical concepts. Logicians are also more reserved than the outgoing Administrators.

ESTJs and NF Temperament Types

NF Visionary temperament types (ENFP, ENFJ, INFP, and INFJ) are defined by their Intuition and Feeling preferences. These personality types are empathetic and pursue meaningful emotional connections and relationships. They are idealists and seek to know themselves and the world better by finding the underlying meaning of things. They aim to realize their full potential. NF temperament types also have a highly developed emotional perception and are keenly aware of their feelings and those of others. This temperamental group is pretty much on the opposite side of the spectrum from the SJ temperament, which ESTJs are a part of. This means that it should be fairly easy to tell Administrators apart from each of the four types in this group. However, it doesn’t mean that they have no similarities whatsoever.


Members of the ENFJ personality type (also known as The Guide) are warm and caring individuals. They often strive to bring harmony and understanding to a group, as well as to inspire others to learn and develop. ENFJs enjoy spending time with people and establishing deep, meaningful connections. They are guided by their dominant cognitive function, Extroverted Feeling to seek answers with regards to personal feelings. ENFJs place a strong emphasis on the emotional effect of their actions on others, to the point of ignoring their own needs sometimes. Guides mostly think in abstract terms and seek the underlying meaning of events. However, they are driven and organized, so they tend to finish what they have started.

ESTJs and ENFJs are connected by their outgoing and enthusiastic nature. They are energized by social interactions and often become the life of the party. Both Administrators and Guides value order and closure, so they tend to be systematic and diligent. Both types have the potential to become strong leaders, albeit relying on contrasting approaches.

ESTJs’ leadership skills are mostly informed by their desire to get the job done. They are confident in their abilities to determine the best plan for action and guide others to achieve success. In the process, they often disregard emotional matters. In contrast, ENFJ types’ main concern is bringing a group to consensus and attending to everyone’s emotional needs. They often encourage others to do their best. Another area in which the two types differ is in their general way of interpreting situations. Administrators take things at face value. They look at facts and draw logical connections. Guides are focused on the symbolic. They seek the deeper meaning of events.


The ENFP personality type (also known as The Optimist) is energetic and idealistic. ENFPs have well-developed people skills. They tend to be future-oriented and focus on unexplored possibilities. Optimists are also warm and empathetic — they care deeply about other people’s feelings and are passionate about attending to them. ENFPs’ dominant function is Extroverted Intuition, which accounts for their tendency to explore new possibilities. They try to see what might be, rather than what is and are skilled at finding hidden patterns and meanings. Optimists value flexibility and spontaneity. They like to keep their options open and don’t rush to decisions.

Both ESTJs and ENFPs enjoy socializing and are energized by it. They are enthusiastic and charismatic. But that’s about as much as they have in common, so it’s unlikely that the two types will be mistaken for one another.

ESTJs and ENFPs have contrasting worldviews. Administrators are grounded and pragmatic, so they prefer to examine facts when interpreting situations and making decisions. Optimists are essentially dreamers — their thought process is abstract and hypothetical. They like to explore events beyond the obvious. What’s more, ENFPs are very sensitive, to the point where they can easily get hurt by criticism and often seek the approval of others. This emotionality contrasts with ESTJs’ practical focus. Administrators rarely take into account the feelings of others or even their own, but rather focus on practical matters. ESTJs are also more organized than the spontaneous ENFP type.


The INFJ personality type (also known as The Sage) is another idealistic and sensitive NF temperament type. What sets them apart from similar types, is that despite their tendency to think about hypotheticals, they often put their plans into practice. They are decisive and like to have routine and structure in their life. Having Introverted Intuition as their dominant function makes them keenly aware of their internal impressions of situations. Once INFJ types form a view they tend to stick to it ardently, which can make them seem rigid. However, their intuition is strong and reliable. They can see patterns clearly and their interpretations are often accurate. Sages strive for intimate relationships, personal growth, and a deep purpose.

ENTJs and INFJs both seek closure. They don’t like to have pending tasks or unfinished business. The two types share an affinity for steady routines and structured environments. They are generally uncomfortable with unpredictable situations and are risk-averse.

In most other respects Administrators and Sages diverge. As an Introvert, the INFJ type tends to be private and reserved. They can easily get exhausted by crowded social gatherings. ESTJs, on the other hand, are energized by lively social settings. Another typical difference between a Sensing type and an Intuitive type is that the former focuses on the concrete, while the latter explores the abstract. INFJs often seek the deep meaning behind events and devote themselves to a cause that can make the world a better place. ESTJs find meaning in norms and established ways. They focus on real-world circumstances.


The INFP personality type (also known as The Mediator) is sensitive and imaginative. At a first glance, most people will recognize INFPs’ caring and easygoing attitude, but beneath it, there is often an intense passion for their ideals. Mediators tend to prefer spending time alone, engaged in deep thought. They are concerned with abstract matters and are oriented towards the future. INFPs’ dominant function is Introverted Feeling, so they are guided by their emotions, but usually process them internally. This can make them seem detached or reticent. Their sensitivity to emotions can also make them too eager to please others, as well as susceptible to being hurt by criticism.

ESTJs and INFPs have the exact opposite preferences, so there isn’t much in common between them. One thing they do share, however, is a fondness for loyalty — once someone gets close to them, they tend to remain committed, whether it’s a friendship or a romantic relationship.

As idealists, INFPs’ focus on theoretical possibilities contrasts with ESTJs’ down-to-earth attitude. Mediators’ ability to see the big picture can make them passionate about their plans, but it can also cause them to lose sight of the current situation and the details. Administrators usually take the opposite view — they focus on the here and now and the particulars. Furthermore, ESTJs are pretty thick-skinned and don’t take things personally, while as a Feeler, the INFP personality type tends to be highly sensitive to criticism. Another personality trait that sets them apart is their perspective on routine. ESTJs like to have clear rules and structure, while INFPs prefer to have the flexibility to be spontaneous, as they feel pressured by strict schedules.